The ability to delay satisfaction is the ultimate art of seduction-while waiting, the victim is held in thrall. Adopt the pose of the Natural to neutralize people's defensivencss and infect them with helpless delight.
In the presence of Naturals, we feel at ease, caught up in their playful spirit, transported back to that golden age. The Natural embodies the longed-for qualities of childhood-spontaneity, sincerity, unpretentiousness. Use the power of the Dandy to create an ambiguous, alluring presence that stirs repressed desires.Ĭhildhood is the golden paradise we are always consciously or unconsciously trying to re-create. They play with masculinity and femininity they fashion their own physical image, which is always startling.
Dandies excite us because they cannot be categorized, and hint at a freedom we want for ourselves. We are instantly attracted to those who are more fluid than we are-those who create their own persona. Most of us feel trapped within the limited roles that the world expects us to play. In a world of disenchantment and baseness, there is limitless seductive power in following the path of the Ideal Lover. He or she is an artist in creating the illusion you require. You long for romance? Adventure? Lofty spiritual communion? The Ideal Lover reflects your fantasy. Ideal Lovers thrive on people's broken dreams, which become lifelong fantasies. They find themselves disappointed by people, events, reality, which cannot match their youthful ideals. Most people have dreams in their youth that get shattered or worn down with age. Stir a woman's repressed longings by adapting the Rake's mix of danger and pleasure. He may be disloyal, dishonest, and amoral, but that only adds to his appeal. The Rake is a great female fantasy-figure when he desires a woman, brief though that moment may be, he will go to the ends of the earth for her. She wants attention, but a man is too often distracted and unresponsive. In a world where women are often too timid to project such an image, learn to take control of the male libido by embodying his fantasy.Ī woman never quite feels desired and appreciated enough. In her presence, which is always heightened and sexually charged, the male feels transported to a realm of pure pleasure. The Siren is the ultimate male fantasy figure because she offers a total release from the limitations of his life. The Seducers- (from The Art of Seduction By Robert Greene)Ī man is often secretly oppressed by the role he has to play-by always having to be responsible, in control, and rational.
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